Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
Creative Living Center is here to help you when you find yourself overwhelmed and confused by your child’s persistent defiance. ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) can occur in children of many different ages and can cause a lot of discomfort and tension for parents. Creative Living Center is here to help you respond to your child’s defiance in a loving, firm, and healthy way.
Definition:
ODD is an ongoing pattern of uncooperative, unruly, defiant, and hostile behavior displayed towards authority figures, which interferes with the child’s day to day functioning in a negative way.
All children are oppositional from time to time (oppositional behavior is most likely during times when a child is hungry, stressed or upset, or during a child’s years as a toddler or early adolescent). However, for most children, normal bouts of defiance are usually tempered and do not seriously impact their social functioning and day to day experiences.
Symptoms to look for:
- Arguing with adults excessively
- Frequent questioning of rules & boundaries
- Refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
- Many deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
- Child blames others for his or her own mistakes & behavior, accepting little ownership.
- Child is often easily annoyed by others and/ or touchy
- Frequent anger and resentment displayed
- Frequent temper tantrums
- Child talks meanly when upset
- Revenge seeking and Spiteful attitude
- Negativity in Adolescents
More Characteristics of ODD:
ODD is:
- A constant day to day issue
- Is excessive compared with what is usual for the child’s age
- Is disruptive to the family, at school,and in other community settings
- Often (but not always) directed toward authority figures: parents, teachers, principals, coaches
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Girls may show the symptoms of ODD differently than boys do.
- Girls are more likely to express aggressiveness through words (including lying) and other indirect ways rather than actions
- Boys often argue with adults and lose their temper.
- May co-exist with other disorders